You don’t have an ROGD child. You have a socially indoctrinated child being used as a pawn for insurance billing for adult male fetishists. And to open new medical and cosmetic surgery markets for kids.

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• If people mind their own business, what do you think of them?

• I know other people like me. Should we not exist?

• I’ve already been to therapy… I’ve sat on this since I was a kid. What do you think I should do?

• If it makes me happy and hurts no one else, why not?

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When a toddler points to a dog and says, “Dog!” and the parent responds, “Yes, that’s a dog,” something profound is happening. The child is not merely learning a word. They are learning:

• I can perceive reality.

• I can make distinctions.

• My observations have meaning.

• The people I trust recognize what I recognize.

• My experience of the world is real.

Every successful act of naming is simultaneously an act of authority building.

Developmentally, children spend years learning to coordinate multiple sources of information:

1. Their sensory experience (”I see a dog.”)

2. Their bodily experience (”Something feels wrong.”)

3. Their emotional experience (”I’m scared.”)

4. Social confirmation (”Yes, you saw that correctly.”)

When these align, children develop a stable sense of self and reality.

This is why affirmation matters so much.

A child who says, “That man is angry,” and is told, “You’re right, he does look angry,” learns to trust perception.

A child who says, “I don’t want to hug him,” and is told, “Okay, you don’t have to,” learns to trust bodily signals.

The child is building an internal reference point.

The danger comes when adults repeatedly undermine that process.

Take a question like:

“Is milk bigger than water?”

Adults often see this as harmless wordplay. The problem is that the question violates the child’s attempt to build stable categories.

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However, she, like many women, have a blind spot when it comes to men who claim a trans identity. She tells a story of when she herself is confronted by a man (in women’s style clothes) in the locker room. Although she initially has a fear response instinct, she disregards this and tells herself a story that explains the man’s presence in her space. This is a great example of the exact thing Gavin de Becker repeatedly warns about in the Gift of Fear: do not make rationalizations that talk yourself out of responding to your instincts!

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Ultimately, he has weak internal boundaries and refuses to accept women’s NO. Instead, he uses a lot of very creative storytelling to pretend that he is a victim when women notice that he is an ENTIRE MAN in their spaces. His fantasy is that a mean “scientist” and “scanning machine” is scanning him for maleness and it makes him feel bad. He is playing cry-bully and making an appeal for women to feel sorry for him as he violates our boundaries and consent.

This is a detailed response to his 17-minute original video. I think it’s worth the watch to see where he goes. My responses in the end gently challenge him to become the man he is attempting to dissociate from.

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The men who call themselves women but say, “we don’t owe you femininity?”

OR

The men who call themselves woman and hyper feminize themselves?

(SPOILER: Both are worse.)

• I share a story of a woman from my boundary reset group.

• I make links to how this impacts children indoctrinated into trans ideology.

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More than young women, I have many young men in my comments on TikTok with questions like this. In my opinion, they are seeking an answer like mine, a “mommy” figure to gently tell them “No” and why this is not good for them.

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