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Jay V. Shore's avatar

You awe me, and your message is very appreciated.

Cat's avatar

A man doesn’t need to be in drag to hurt you in a woman’s space sweetie. Stop being mean girl already and realize trans women ARE women, it’s not up to you, , if anything the trans girls are who are gonna save you from the bad men. … don’t be stupid!!!!!!!

Sam N's avatar

A man who comes into women's spaces is a risk, whether he calls himself a woman or not

Cat's avatar

That’s wonderful that you were able to find a path to worth through your own trauma and find a sense of comfort and identity in yourself. I’m truly happy for you BUT that’s you and your story. You don’t speak for everyone, that’s the only problem here. I’m not arguing at all with you about how your journey went bc that’s all you and only you can tell me how your story goes and who you are and it sounds like you know who you are which is awesome. I have other friends who are just as confident and happy with who they are and they happen to be trans. Their story is different, you maybe were in fact born in the right body but they weren’t. The only argument here is that you do not get to say who is a man or who is a woman any more than I get to tell you whether you are a democrat or a republican. Embrace who you are, be the best you that you can be which it sounds like you’re working on BUT be careful that you don’t prevent others from their journey or that you don’t judge them or tell them what they are or are not. It’s simply not up to you or your place. My oldest is a surgeon. He says he can say without question that once a man undergoes certain medical steps, he is in fact a woman and vice versa. Are you a doctor? Anyway, again im so glad that you shared your wonderful self realization story and it’s great that you overcame something many of us still struggle with myself included ( sexual trauma, body dysmorphia). But please, don’t say harmful things to others on their own path to self discovery 🙂

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Of course, agree to disagree. I can tell you’re a good person and not trying to hurt ppl. It sounds like you really just want to tell your story which is more than ok! May I suggest perhaps telling it and just reinforcing that it is in fact your journey and may not reflect anyone else’s experiences but it certainly reflects yours which in and of itself is of course important and needs to be told and heard. I’m glad and honored that you were willing and open enough to share what you experienced with me. I hope your future is nothing but endless possibilities and wonderful new discoveries that continue to enlighten you and fill you with unimaginable joy. I’d also encourage you to handle the emotions and feelings of others with care and ease. Remember when you yourself weren’t in a good place and were still searching. The last thing you needed was someone coming down on you. Or, now that you e discovered who you really are, the last thing you need is ppl challenging that. There are others who’ve found the same bliss in transitioning. Please, don’t shame them or correct them. Just be kind and accepting so that they arnt wounded. I’m really glad I got to meet and talk to you. You’re a very interesting and fantastic lady!!💕

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Feb 19
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KaislaLisa's avatar

For men the reasons are quite different than for women. There’s also info available on this.

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Cat's avatar

Let me ask if I may, are you a man or a woman, I’m assuming your not non binary… it doesn’t necessarily matter which you are but for argument’s sake sake I need one or the other.

Cat's avatar

I am so sick of dumb woman that can’t get it through their head that if a bad man wants to come into your space and hurt you I promise you,

HES GONNA DO IT,

Cat's avatar

Can you tell which woman are going into women’s spaces that have committed crimes?? Good news, all men do stay out, a trans woman US A WOMAN!!!!

Sam N's avatar

Transwomen are male. Full stop