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TIM Talk: Man Who Feels "Unsafe" When He Enters Women's Spaces

The man in this video is a case of classic DARVO (Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender). He is an emotional manipulator who pretends to be a victim when confronted with his bad behavior.

Ultimately, he has weak internal boundaries and refuses to accept women’s NO. Instead, he uses a lot of very creative storytelling to pretend that he is a victim when women notice that he is an ENTIRE MAN in their spaces. His fantasy is that a mean “scientist” and “scanning machine” is scanning him for maleness and it makes him feel bad. He is playing cry-bully and making an appeal for women to feel sorry for him as he violates our boundaries and consent.

This is a detailed response to his 17-minute original video. I think it’s worth the watch to see where he goes. My responses in the end gently challenge him to become the man he is attempting to dissociate from.

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