Knowingly or unknowingly, women can be used by men to groom other women and girls.*
Grooming is the process of normalizing and desensitizing increasing boundary violations. It is the slow-boiling frog scenario.
The women who practice medicalized sex deception, who are effective sex mimics and are able to fool the perceptions of others into thinking they are men, are what I call a "sheep in wolf's clothing." The sheep in wolf's clothing degrades the safety of the flock by normalizing and desensitizing the sheep to the presence of the wolf and thus dulling the sheep's safety alert signal for danger.
If women start coming into women's toilets and locker rooms while disguised as men this NORMALIZES and DESENSITIZES women to the presence of men in our spaces. Whether knowingly or not, this is grooming women and girls. If these medicalized women were to start coming into our spaces as "men" it would make women and girls less responsive to our protective instincts when actual men were in our spaces.
I agree that these women don't belong in the men's single sex spaces because men and boys deserve privacy. Unfortunately, they have made themselves unfit for access to public facilities which are designated for single sex. Ultimately, it is up to them to take personal responsibility for their consumer choices. Women are girls are not responsible to bear the consequences for other women's actions.
*"Sexual Grooming: Integrating Research, Practice, Prevention, and Policy" by Winters & Jeglic.
